We all have traits that make us unique… the ability to be innovative, detail-oriented, visionaries, task-masters, …etc. These qualities make us successful when dealing with the many challenges of change. However, we also have emotional struggles that often sabotage our ability to perform efficiently, which - when neglected, ignored or disregarded - impact negatively on our aspiration-performance cycle. Therefore…
The benefit is that the introvert will likely find they enjoy being around people, being heard and sharing ideas as long as it’s not too often and they get frequent breaks from interacting with other people. An introvert “faking extraversion” when needed, compel themselves to become a better version of themselves. They will still thrive on natural introverted traits, but will be able to adjust to extraversion in order to obtain better results. The reverse is also true for extraverts, spending less time with idle chatting, and setting more time aside to contemplate and “think about” what is important.
Realizing that we are constantly working to evolve ourselves is an integral aspect of life's journey and critical to eventual success. When acknowledging that it’s not a change, but an evolution, enables us to allow for growth through trial-and-error. This gives us the needed courage to fail and learning lessons from both the successes achieved and mistakes made. When we make it about change, it’s a black and white rigidity. With a mindset of change, we are set up to fail because it’s impossible to change who we really are. However, with an evolving mindset, we have the freedom and ability to succeed, because it’s working gradually from of our strengths, while managing our weaknesses effectively, which ultimately lead - not only to bigger gains - but to a more satisfying created life. Most important: the aim is not to evolve for anyone else's sake… this is a selfish endeavor. We can only step into our own power, when we create better versions of ourselves for our own and well-being. And from that hard work, we find that everyone grows around us as well.
Don’t attempt to change, strive to evolve. Try to step into your personal power so that you can become a better version of yourself to excel from good to great, to magnificent! By using our natural strengths and being willing to working outside of our current comfort zone, the possibilities of success are limitless. Plus, the emotional self-sabotage is greatly reduced as well.
To evolve imply… illuminating issues, highlight problems, explore perspectives, determine context, investigate suggestions and advice, identify possibilities and seek out alternatives. It is the individual him/herself who has to decided what to adopt and what not to adopt, what to accept, reject and how to apply it in his/her personal and/or professional life. The goal should never be to change anyone. It is rather a question of guiding people towards authentic self-knowledge, which implies living in their full potential and being the best that they can be… an evolutionary process that continues throughout our life's.